Guide
What to write down after meeting someone
Write down the smallest note that will help your future self continue the conversation: where you met, what they cared about, and what should happen next.
The useful minimum
- Where/how you met: the event, host, group, city, or intro.
- Recognition cue: one non-sensitive detail that helps you place them.
- Main thread: what you actually talked about.
- Worth remembering: one detail that would feel thoughtful later.
- Open loop: what you promised, offered, or should check on.
- Next timing: when the note should come back.
- Possible opener: one sentence that restarts the thread.
Example note
“Alex, met at Jordan's rooftop. New to Brooklyn from Austin. Looking for weeknight tennis and quiet photo-walk spots. Promised Brooklyn photo list before Friday coffee. Ask if Sunday tennis worked out.”
What to leave out
Do not save private messages, sensitive details, full contact records, or speculation about the person. A good note is a context cue, not a file on someone.